Trust (social sciences), reliance on another person or entity.
Reliance- 1.confident or trustful dependence. 2.confidence. 3.something or someone relied on.
Conversations with friends are sometimes better than grandma's homemade biscuits, as it give you the ability to look at yourself the way other people see you. Trust in any relationship is foremost and should not supersede anything. Trust should not supersede friendships, work, money, or anything else.
A man that I admire very much and always will- once told me that when you lose the ability to see someone else's hurt - and you truly care about them, then you have lost the ability to learn anything from anyone. You become like a rock- hard and insensitive, but most of all -without love -or the ability to receive love in return.
Being arrogant to the feelings of others (Spouses and significant others) makes you a fool- as time goes by one probably reaches out to others who feel the same way, and then the veil is lifted and they see things the way they are.
That is when they become STRONG and realize that THEY never really meant anything toYOU to begin with- Hence your stuck scratching you head, and moving on to the next fix- While the other begins to proceeded to a higher level of thinking about themselves and ends up with GREATNESS, HAPPINESS, and FULFILLMENT in life-
I will call him Joshua - Dont ever think that the person you are sitting next to at the dinner table- In the movies- In the Bed- is OK- just because they are there with you- That could be the very person who is hurting on the inside because of something you said, or an act that you committed and getting ready to break out because of YOUR ability to NOT see what YOU did- and the common sense to SEE the pain YOU have put them through, WHILE YOU- all the time feeling inside that every thing is OK-
That is not the way it works- Open you mouth and tell them (If you care) that you are sorry and do everything you can to make them feel as comfortable with themselves and heal from the damaging wounds you delt them because of YOUR own selfish desires- If you want them around.
You cant have your cake and eat it too- so if you would rather be on the other side getting your kicks off others,TOSSED TO AN FRO with anything and everything for a moment of gratification- then at least have the BALLS to look then in the eye and say Goodbye-
There will be no next time-
Conversations with friends are sometimes better than grandma's homemade biscuits, as it give you the ability to look at yourself the way other people see you. Trust in any relationship is foremost and should not supersede anything. Trust should not supersede friendships, work, money, or anything else.
A man that I admire very much and always will- once told me that when you lose the ability to see someone else's hurt - and you truly care about them, then you have lost the ability to learn anything from anyone. You become like a rock- hard and insensitive, but most of all -without love -or the ability to receive love in return.
Being arrogant to the feelings of others (Spouses and significant others) makes you a fool- as time goes by one probably reaches out to others who feel the same way, and then the veil is lifted and they see things the way they are.
That is when they become STRONG and realize that THEY never really meant anything toYOU to begin with- Hence your stuck scratching you head, and moving on to the next fix- While the other begins to proceeded to a higher level of thinking about themselves and ends up with GREATNESS, HAPPINESS, and FULFILLMENT in life-
I will call him Joshua - Dont ever think that the person you are sitting next to at the dinner table- In the movies- In the Bed- is OK- just because they are there with you- That could be the very person who is hurting on the inside because of something you said, or an act that you committed and getting ready to break out because of YOUR ability to NOT see what YOU did- and the common sense to SEE the pain YOU have put them through, WHILE YOU- all the time feeling inside that every thing is OK-
That is not the way it works- Open you mouth and tell them (If you care) that you are sorry and do everything you can to make them feel as comfortable with themselves and heal from the damaging wounds you delt them because of YOUR own selfish desires- If you want them around.
You cant have your cake and eat it too- so if you would rather be on the other side getting your kicks off others,TOSSED TO AN FRO with anything and everything for a moment of gratification- then at least have the BALLS to look then in the eye and say Goodbye-
There will be no next time-
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